My 922nd and Final Saints Alive Article
So here we are – my last ever Saints Alive article! I feel like I need to find some pithy advice to offer, but then I think that whatever I might come up with you will have heard me say or seen me write before. It has truly been a wonderful 23 years and I feel so grateful for the many ways in which my life has been enriched by this beautiful community we call All Saints Anglican School. We live in a world that is oftentimes rather cynical and chaotic; yet here at All Saints there still exists a lovely innocence and an order that helps us to feel safe and valued. This innocence and order does not seek to deny the challenges that exist in the world, but rather to transcend them.
If there is one message that I can leave you with as I head off for new adventures, it is this: wherever you are reading this, whatever might be happening in your life right now, know that you are enough, that you matter and that you are deeply loved. I have never understood why we waste so much of our time feeling inadequate – as parents, as children, as people. Perhaps it is just part of the human condition. We need to find a way to forgive ourselves for our imperfections; we all have them. If we can’t find a way of doing this, of learning to love ourselves despite all our flaws, then it becomes so much harder to love others. So take a break from reading this article and say to yourself, out loud if you can, ‘I am enough; I matter; I am deeply loved.’ I must confess I am not very good at forgiving myself. I tend to get hung up on all those things I could have done better. Yet I do know it would be a whole lot worse without the incredible support and love I have received from this community over the last 23 years. I especially want to thank our school parents who have been so unwavering in their support. I mentioned my gratitude to our parents in my Speech Night address last Tuesday:
‘From our parents I have learnt the value of sacrifice – the hours spent in the car park, the taxi driving, the many ways in which you are required to absorb with love the disappointments and mood swings that affect our children and of course the fees that require so many of you to put those overseas holidays and little luxuries on hold. It has never been easy being a parent and in my own view it seems to be getting ever more difficult in this rapidly shifting landscape; but you are the true educators of your children, and I am so grateful not only for your ongoing and ever-present support of our various endeavours, but also for the lessons you have taught me about the value of sacrifice. Thank you parents.’
Speaking of gratitude, I am overwhelmed by the trouble so many of you went to last Sunday to make my farewell such a heartwarming and joyful occasion. It was everything I had ever hoped for and a whole lot more. I will never forget it and am so grateful to all of you who turned up to help me celebrate. Thank you.
Finally, I want to acknowledge and thank that remarkable group we are proud to call the Class of 2024. They have acted with such dignity, grace and poise these last few weeks and the formal on Thursday night was simply spectacular. They have already started the business of making our world a better place and they will continue to do this as they move out into the wider world.
So thank you one and all for allowing me a life for which I am grateful every day. May God bless each and every one of you, now and always, and may All Saints Anglican School continue to be a beacon of light and love in the years ahead.
Patrick Wallas
Headmaster